As important as it is for you to break out of someone’s control now, you don’t seem to be able to exert your authority over others. Still, today’s message is clear: no one can keep you locked up if you believe that you are free. The key to your happiness is to consider which rules you’re willing to accept and then adhere to them happily.
We’re drawn to experience pleasure, yet we’re unwilling to sacrifice our freedom to get what we want.
You tend to be a rather methodical thinker, but today it’s easier than usual to make quick mental connections. Thoughts and ideas spark off one another, creating kinetic energy as they spontaneously create and combust. Use this keen mental energy to solve a puzzle or brainstorm a project. Or, simply have fun talking and debating with friends. Sometimes it’s nice just to get in a mental workout, even if it’s ultimately aimless.
Scorpio and Taurus arguments, from an astrological perspective, may be the result of the deeply rooted and immovable nature of both these signs. Most relationships will experience the occasional argument, but some astrological combinations result in more volatile relationships than others. Fortunately, Scorpio and Taurus do not represent a difficult match. In fact, the Scorpio and Taurus combination represents one of the more positive zodiac unions since water and earth signs are generally compatible. So, when it comes to exploring the issues that provoke Scorpio and Taurus arguments, an understanding of astrological energies and also a wider view of the natal chart process is needed.
About Scorpio and Taurus Relationships
Earth and water combinations generally produce a positive match when it comes to astrological compatibility. However, there is more than just an earth and water match at play in a Scorpio and a Taurus. Both of these zodiac signs have their triplicity in the “fixed” category. The fixed signs of the zodiac result in an energy that moves downward towards the earth. It serves to stabilize and ground an individual. Unfortunately, when negative character aspects come in to play, the fixed signs may also produce character deficiencies such as stubbornness, a fear of change and a very opinionated nature. The confidence and security that is kindled by a fixed duplicity can cause problems in a relationship when it is not tempered by a good character.
The difficulty in predicting the success of relationships based solely on astrological features is that environmental factors play an important role in shaping precise behaviors. Moreover, when it comes to an individual’s natal chart, there are more features to consider than just the placement of the Sun signs. Should the Scorpio and Taurus in question host natal charts that display several inauspicious planetary aspects, a volatile relationship is much more likely. Moreover, should these discouraging planetary aspects be fostered alongside a poor environmental upbringing, it is even more likely that the individual involved in this relationship will be difficult and apt to display the more negative characteristics of his or her zodiac sign.
So, when you examine two natal charts for the purposes of gauging romantic compatibility, you will first want to note the factors within each chart individually that deal with both parties’ personal conflicts. After that, you will want to note the zodiac incompatibilities between the two charts as a pair. It is easy to see how all these nuances can help to support or incite a relationship to failure.
Scorpio and Taurus Arguments
Arguments between a Taurus and a Scorpio can occur over a variety of issues, but the provocative factors in these debates will likely be fueled by one or both of the individuals possessing fixed opinions. People who are narrow-minded in their approach to life can make extremely difficult partners. Essentially, individuals who are stubborn and closed-minded cannot be changed easily, if at all. Taurus is notorious for his obstinate nature. Scorpio is renowned for his temper and sessions of deep brooding. The combination of these two negatives can lead to arguments that don’t go anywhere and result in long periods of silence and resentment. This resentment will resonate even more deeply with the gloomy Scorpio, whereas Taurus’ stubbornness may cause the issues at play to come up in conversation over and over again.
This scenario represents the worst case. It also depends largely on natal charts that are Scorpio and Taurus dominant. One of the advantages of having a natal chart that features many zodiac signs is the balance that is created by differing energies. Charts that are too dominant in one energy, or are dominant in two opposing energies, can create more complicated individuals. It is almost guaranteed that a conflicted individual will manifest some of this conflict in his relationships.
Conflicts Can Be Resolved with Effort
A Scorpio and Taurus relationship doesn’t need to be so complicated. Both parties involved will need to look carefully at their own inherent nature and recognize the behaviors that need improvement in order for any sort of conflict resolution to occur.
Those born on the Taurus-Gemini cusp are eternally young. They are energetic, prolific and once they find something that really appeals to them, they do it quite a bit.
They are also versatile. This versatility may cause them to wear themselves out because they try to do too much too frequently. They need to learn to limit themselves to create a balance.
Taurus-Gemini is a born communicator. They love active conversations on just about any topic you can imagine. They do have to be careful not to monopolize the conversation. It is all too easy for them to do.
They may be conflicted about certain things due to their nature. While they want to be earthy and stable, they are drawn to towards more unstable, frenetic behavior. They may not be sensitive to the feelings of others. While they can spend hours debating over their own emotional matters, they may appear rather unsympathetic or detached. They are prone to burning out, both physically and mentally. If they can learn self-discipline, they will be more successful.
Taurus-Gemini needs to keep track of their activity level with great care. They need to learn consistency when rejecting ideas or people. They need to learn how to gentle their approach. Confronting their own insecurities will help them grow. Resting is a good thing from time to time.
Taurus-Gemini can focus too much on money and possessions. They are usually gentle, dependable and tolerant of those around them. At the same time, they can be high strung and scattered. They are entertaining and make loyal friends who are fun to be around. They like to spend time eating good food and enjoying a rousing conversation.
Their strengths are their stability, intellectual and conversational skills and their perseverance. They are good at analyzing challenging ideas and have the ability to communicate those ideas to others. If they can learn to add the variety of Gemini to the dedication of Taurus, they can be very successful.
Broadminded and hardworking, Taurus-Gemini is also expressive, energetic, charming, intelligent, adaptable, shy, practical, mature, gentle, quiet, stable, restless, blunt, scattered, nervous, over-indulgent and changeable. They don’t call this the Cusp of Energy for nothing.
Individuals born on the Taurus-Gemini cusp are independent and proud. They are very talented, especially when they learn how to get their inclinations to work together. If they get unhappy, they tend to get lethargic and apathetic. Learning to forgive is a blessing in their life.
They may have interests in art, music, travel or social activities. They attract many friends, though they should be cautious they don’t over-commit themselves to too many relationships. They are generous people, who enjoy delving into many things.
Aries-Taurus Cusp. Known as the cusp of power. Individuals born on the Aries-Taurus cusp have a dominant personality. You always know when they are in the room. They can make quite an impression on those around them.
Their forceful personalities make them good leaders when they choose to be. They are also commonly found climbing the corporate ladder, becoming well known freelancers or running any situation, whether it is at home or in business.
Aries-Taurus does not like to submit to the authority of others. They must beware of being overwhelmed by their own ambition. They are conflicted between their Aries and Taurus counterparts. Aries wishes them to be impulsive, energetic and intuitive, while Taurus is practical, sensuous and well-grounded. This may cause conflicts between practicality and dreams. In some cases, Aries-Taurus Cusp works well, with Taurus tempering the fiery boldness of Aries to a strong, determined realism. They may, at times, show a lack of emotional sensitivity that may be alarming to some.
Aries-Taurus must fight their immovable nature with their forceful nature. It may take a long time for them to reach a balance that works well for them. They will need to learn to support their wish for stability with their aggressive side.
Aries-Taurus is good at strategizing; allowing them to overcome what may seem like overwhelming odds. If they follow their instinct, they will know precisely when the right time is to act. Taurus helps Aries to plan each detail in preparation for their goal, so they almost always succeed.
Aries-Taurus should learn to sit back and watch sometimes so they don’t overwhelm others. It is difficult for them to sit back and watch others do tasks when they know they can do it better. If they can keep the feelings of others in mind, they will fare well.
They enjoy challenges of all kinds, whether it is in business, sports or intellectual areas. They play as hard as they work. They are known to be flirtatious, bold, opinionated, strong, quiet, talented, sensitive, humorous, money-oriented, eloquent, dependable, practical, patient, aggressive, helpful, aloof, stubborn, jealous, moody, fickle, over-sensitive, quarrelsome and changeable. Quite a handful, aren’t they?
The Aries-Taurus Cusp is also known as the Cusp of Power. You can probably see why when they have so much going for them. They have the amazing ability to get into a project and really run with it all the way to its conclusion.
They enjoy doing things for their family and friends, but it is easy to let this get out of hand. They prefer to follow their own instincts rather than follow the rules. This can cause trouble if they are not cautious. They may think they know it all, but they’ll get along better if they don’t act like it. While plans that go awry make them really annoyed, when they use a practical bent to their tasks, it generally works out better.
Those born on the Aries-Taurus cusp may be mechanically inclined, with the ability to stick with the job long enough to figure out any problems that arise.
Love and Sex Horoscope Aries - December 2011
Now is the time to review possible latent issues between you, such as jealousy, secret sensitivities or egotistic attitudes of one with respect to the other. Don’t forget that in love relationships there has to be revitalization from day to day that should not be neglected, but is advisable to maintain continual attention and concentration. Learn to share the achievements that each of you may have accomplished, talk about the psychological imperfections that still are within you and have not yet been surpassed, in fact, summarize your psyche in an earthly way.
It is not the time to conceal anything, but rather to recognize your own limitations and making goals to surpass them. Sharing your limitations with your loved one will help you gain more strength to tackle the task.
Love and Sex Horoscope Taurus - December 2011
During this short period of time, there is harmony between your need to be open, amused and loved on one hand, and your family responsibilities or relationship to your parents on the other hand. Thus, if you are involved in a love relationship now, you will find that the interrelationship will be more and better accepted by your family.
The end of December 2011 is a good time to live, study and practice total integration in your affectionate relationship, where the body, the psyche and the mind collaborate toward the same end: fusion, and as a result evolution. Enjoy yourself intensely and become aware of each instant, since true love is bound to the full awareness of each act, each gesture, each feeling and each thought.
Love and Sex Horoscope Gemini - December 2011
This is also a good time to bring to light elements from your infancy and adolescence that still could be active in your subconscious, in the wake of psychological experiences that still have not been assimilated well. If you have some antipathy, resentment or grudge toward some member of your family, now is the time to reflect on it and, thereafter, improve your relationship with that person.
From December 18th - December 25th 2011 a harmonious aspect of transiting Mars to Venus activates your emotional, sensuous and affectionate energy. The relationship to your mate will be especially vital. You may want to expand, enjoy, entertain and intensify your emotional communication. In general, you will feel more sure of expressing your emotions and addressing your relationship to your mate.
Love and Sex Horoscope Cancer - December 2011
Don’t forget that a sexual relationship is brought about simultaneously on the physical as well as the emotional and mental level. The physical vitality must be accompanied by the feeling of sincerity and intense communication so that the spark of real love can be produced.
Sensually, you now tend to be very passionate, spontaneous and ardent in the manifestation of your emotions, which will increase the level of energy exchange between you and your companion towards the end of December. This generates greater inner security in you as well as your partner and greater ability to contend with the daily circumstances. Furthermore, as time goes on you will know how to better combine the responsibilities that each of you have from day to day, on one hand, and times of leisure and expansion, on the other hand.
Love and Sex Horoscope Leo - December 2011
Remember that nobody is pushing you to get a mate quickly. Without a doubt, it can be said that quality is worth more than quantity. If you pass this short and intensive cycle in solitary, become fully aware of yourself as an independent and creative individual.
Avoid superior or arrogant attitudes in your love relationship and practice sincere communication every day. Don’t accumulate anything or keep anything for tomorrow. If you believe that your mate has failed in some way, first meditate on it and when you are completely calm, show respect and confidence in your companion. By continuing this method you will find that a good quality of communication is established, and the results will be seen by you alone. It is always preferable to quietly become aware of the situation before accusing each other without reason and common sense. Don’t allow anything to alter the confidence in your mate, since this is the basis on which a stable and fulfilling relationship is sustained. Neither of you are perfect, and that is what makes your adventure more interesting.
Love and Sex Horoscope Virgo - December 2011
Sexuality should not wear out your energy, but release, expand, revitalize and recover your personal strength. This is a good way of finding out if the relationship works correctly, since “nothing is created, nothing is destroyed and all is transformed”. Thus, the integral act of love must result in the revitalization of both partners on the physical as well as the emotional and mental levels. As a rule, when someone is tired, it is because you are not achieving an energy circuit adapted to the environment. On the other hand, when someone is revitalized, it is because you readily tune into others, and in this case, your partner.
If you are in a period of courtship, don’t think that by simply maintaining an apparently harmonious, fun and happy keynote during this phase guarantees that the future relationship will endure in time. There has to be a fundamental understanding between you, and not only the illusion of having a good time, going dancing or enjoying yourselves with friends.
Love and Sex Horoscope Libra - December 2011
It is advisable to take some time for personal reflection, thinking about your more recent affectionate or sentimental experiences, before reacting or acting without previous contemplation. Now is the time to look deeper into your real psyche, avoiding at all cost to express your feelings outwardly without having sufficiently worked out what comes from within.
A disharmonious aspect of transiting Sun to Venus brings an increase in your sensuous vital energy, which can incline you to certain excesses. For example, you now could feel a great desire for amusement and expansion, and may even want to escape from your daily grind going to a dance with your mate, dining out, going to a club, or preparing an exceptional weekend. Obviously, there is nothing wrong with it in general, unless these kind of activities are carried to excess. It isn’t so much the fact of wanting to live well, but rather to control yourself and stay within your means. If you are not careful, the following weeks could be a narrow squeeze of money, since you over spent on details, gifts or outings to such a degree that you actually are left without anything in the budget for the rest of the month. Don’t give so much importance to the size or quantity of your entertainments, since a simple gift in a given moment can have great sentimental value.
Love and Sex Horoscope Scorpio - December 2011
It is advisable to jointly coordinate your free time now so that you can enjoy leisure as creative as possible, for example going to social, cultural and intellectual events, or developing a hobby or interest that both of you will enjoy, or simply conversing about interesting topics. If you maintain a level of communication that is psychological and emotional adequate, your relationship will be more relaxing, happy and optimistic. Let your romanticism fly away and see your companion as a great possibility to accomplish your ideal. In the beginning, no relationship is perfect, and daily effort is required to accomplish greater levels.
If you currently are not involved with anyone, there is a possibility of a sudden and fleeting romance, but you have to be prudent in this regard. It is very possible that this relationship will be short, since the communication has been established on a too superficial level.
Love and Sex Horoscope Sagittarius - December 2011
Perhaps you also want to show off your mate socially, seeking personal grandeur. Without a doubt, you are proud of your mate, but it is also advisable to apply the virtues of balance and simplicity in this sense.
A harmonious aspect of Venus to Pluto in the end of December is a small step toward ascending the height of sexual alchemy, which is based on the progressive increase of sexual energy as well as control over it. Uncontrolled sexuality is precisely the opposite of happiness and fulfillment in the relationship of a couple. On the other hand, high and conscious sexuality inclines to personal self-realization and complete satisfaction in the relationship.
Love and Sex Horoscope Capricorn - December 2011
However, if you insist on bringing your daily problems to the area of your family and mate, you won’t be observing the work - rest cycle, which could bring your vital energies to a low. Avoid at all cost relating to your mate in a dry, routine, tired or concerned way. Learn to live your life intensely during the time you have the opportunity to be with your companion. Be thankful what you have and don’t complain so much. Only with a positive attitude will you be able to control the possible complications that may be coming up from day to day.
Don’t forget that love is something sensitive, intuitive and relaxing, and the affectionate event indirectly helps to strengthen the will, spirit and optimism of the daily experiences. Don’t subdue or put off love until next week, next month or when your problems may have been solved. By doing that, you certainly would be losing a great opportunity to amend and improve the course of events from now on.
Love and Sex Horoscope Aquarius - December 2011
As a rule, you will be more inclined to define circumstances, to participate actively, to decide and take part in family problems. In other words, you will prefer to take part in family decisions, and in that way try to improve conditions in your family, or solve problems that have been delayed or stagnant for some time. You never will avoid your part of responsibility that touches the dynamics of your family.
In your sensuous life, you now prefer continuity rather than passion, and your sexual energy is more serene, deep, internal and mature. You want to enjoy pleasure, and that pleasure in your relationship brings greater knowledge and mutual deepening. You are not inclined to great sentimental scenes nor overflowing vivacities, but opt for quiet love based on deep feelings and great inner concern.
Love and Sex Horoscope Pisces - December 2011
If you currently are not involved with anyone, it is an auspicious time to establish a relationship with someone that attracts you because of their artistic talent, depth of character, sensibility, or because you feel that it is a person of very high character. This could be the beginning of a very close and probably lasting relationship.
When love is developed with confidence, deep faith in the other person, and great emotional sensitivity, it is converted into something transcendent, that is to say, it takes on a purely personal dominance. When two people love each other conscientiously, they are not only helping their own evolution, but are also collaborating with life and its evolution.
Aries: These men don’t like shy, retiring women. They are more interested in direct, straightforward gals and they may in fact find that they’re often attracted to tomboys. They like women who can take care of themselves instead of always relying on the men in their lives.
Taurus: These men are looking for very feminine, earthy women who are probably also soft-spoken and not too overdone. They also prefer their women to have healthy figures as opposed to stick-thin, modelly builds.
Gemini: These guys are looking for intelligent women with good heads on their shoulders and won’t think twice about dating a dumb bunny type. They’re also attracted to women who are active, energetic, and adventurous. Tomboys or sporty types are also often fine with them.
Cancer: Cancer men is looking for a women who is not too aggressive or overbearing. He wants someone feminine, sensitive, and possibly also a bit needy. He’d like to take care of the woman in his life and is turned off by flashy, tawdry types.
Leo: Men in Leo placement like glamour gals who are well dressed, well groomed, and wear plenty of make-up, jewelry, and accessories. Personality-wise he is looking for someone confident and possibly even a little proud. He may find he gravitates toward models or actresses.
Virgo: These guys are looking for intelligent, organized, and natural women. Simplicity, cleanliness, and straightforwardness are also watchwords here. When it comes to looks, a Venus in Virgo guy prefers natural looks to overly made-up faces.
Libra: These guys are looking for well-mannered, cultured ladies who know how to make a good impression wherever they go. They also are looking for mates who are eager to please and have a polished, charming approach toward life.
Scorpio: Scorpio men placement are the ones who are attracted to the seductresses out there. They like their women a bit mysterious, and they are definitely attracted to dark, brooding, complicated personalities.
Sagittarius: These men are looking for active, positive, cheerful women who have killer senses of humor and believe that variety is the spice of life. They also prefer athletic or natural good looks to overly groomed, overly made-up appearances.
Capricorn: These are the guys that are looking for successful, dedicated career women. They like capable gals who can hold their own, like to take care of themselves, and have a practical, straightforward approach to life.
Aquarius: Aquarius guys is looking for that girl that’s literally one-in-a-million. He likes originality – not just when it comes to her looks, but her outlook on life and her personality as well. He also is likely to appreciate brains and a sparkling sense of humor.
Pisces: This guy wants a sensitive, artistic type to call his own. He may even prefer his women to be a little needy and fragile, as he’d like to take care of the woman in his life. Qualities like femininity, dreaminess, and quirkiness are also attractive to him.
Miss Taurus, you will be very often attracted to men who have the Ascendant or Scorpio. It is certain that sexual happiness will prevail in your couple. You will remain attached to the material goods accumulated throughout your life made of mutual passion.
Virgo and Capricorn men will also win your favours. You enjoy Virgos’ practical, organized and concrete personality and you equally appreciate Capricorns’ huge ambitions and their promising consequences, which you can clearly foresee, and which suit so well your taste for beautiful things and comfort. You also like both signs’ perfectionism and their management skills which match your temperament.
Cancer and Pisces men will also arouse your interest. You enjoy Cancers’ taste for comfortable homes and their need for security. You equally appreciate Pisceans’ charm, their artistic bent, and above all, you are amazed by the way they easily move you.
You will run away from Leo and Aquarius men. You find that Leos are too authoritarian and idealistic. As for Aquarians, their detached values are too opposed to yours and do not match the concrete and materialistic values you badly need, let’s confess it.
What about the four other signs?
To tell the truth, you must know that adjacent signs have nothing in common. Thus, the relationship you may experience with Gemini and Aries men will be… a bit neutral, neither good nor bad, certainly nothing nasty. Geminis will make your head spin because they are very mobile, talkative and changing. As for Arians, they are not likely to respect the calm and quietness you are so fond of. They will not share your taste for luxurious mansions, or for business. Not to mention the difference in pace that is prevailing between you.
Libra and Sagittarius men stir up in you blended feelings of warm curiosity and natural distrust. Libras are very refined and graceful, but they are not enough down to earth. Sagittarians are constantly on the go, they are not attached to their home, and they have very little concern for concrete matters. In such circumstances, the outcomes seem quite uncertain!
Taurus
| Aries | Taurus |
| Gemini | Cancer |
| Leo | Virgo |
| Libra | Scorpio |
| Sagittarius | Capricorn |
| Aquarius | Pisces |
